
Pedalo - One of my favorite toys as a kid
Recently my friend asked me what my favorite toy was when I was a child. The two that came to mind immediately were Pedalo and Skip-It. “So you liked activity toys” my friend said. I suppose I do. I’ve been thinking about this for a while and I realized that my personal play style is probably more activity based. I also loved running around outside as a kid, something I still tremendously enjoy today. Not jogging or going on a run, just being outside and moving.

Girl using Skip-It
And while I also absolutely love playing board games, I am missing the active part of playing in my life. So I am doing an effort to incorporate more activities and play as my daily practice. For example I just bought a Hula Hoop and am teaching myself to hoop. Something I was never good at as a child, but now I can at least keep it up for several rotations and with some practice I am sure I will get it. The best part? I am having fun and working up a sweat and get my hear race and even though I keep dropping the hoop I want to keep going. It’s been a while since I had this much fun exercising. I’m sure it will be a great journey and I will be able to use this experience as a great metaphor for other parts of my life as I continue on this adventure.
Another thing I recently realized was that my “expressionistic” artistic self transcends into all parts of my life. For a while I was thinking of learning to dance Salsa or some more traditional dance. My parents gave me a gift certificate for a dance class a couple of Christmases ago, but somehow I was never quite able to commit. Recently I have learned about more expressive and less “constructed” dances and they are more appealing to me than Salsa or Waltz. While I appreciate the beauty of ballroom dance I crave the expression these other dances are offering. I feel like learning the steps would feel like homework and a chore. Maybe in the future, but for now I am enjoying trying to keep my hoop up.
I am discovering that I need to live out loud and use my whole body to express myself to be true to myself and experience the world, because that is how I play. I have let myself constricted for too long in jobs that require me to sit constantly and then studying at night. I need to move, to listen with my whole body and play with all of my senses.
How about you? How do you play? What was your favorite toy, game or play time as a kid and what does that tell you about your own personal play style?
